I would like to share my experience here....some of you may know me from before....

I had so much doubts to join to an online dating site...finally I did....and I met a guy that I felt so connected with....I will call him MR. online#1.....we went for three dates and then some text messages between us....then I found out he doesn't call, I didn't text him and he didn't contact me....I thought he found somebody else....and I just went for a date with MR. online#2.....I met MR. online#2 in a free dating site verses MR. online#1 in a paid online dating site.....

anyway, to make the story short....when I went out with the MR. online#2, I felt somehting wrong, or I felt I'm still thinking about the first guy, I mean MR. online#1....so, when MR. online#1 asked me out for the second date, first I said okay, because I was not sure, but then I said no to him...and I was so polite....he texted me asking me if I like him and he said he will not going to bother me...I told him he's very handsome, but sorry I didn't feel the connection and he's even better off without me....then he texted me how wonderful I am and how inteligent and pretty I am....(((well...after one date, how he figured out, that was another red flag for me))))

anyway...I did not go out with MR. Online#2....in mean while, I got an email from MR. online#1 that he found a job in UK and he moved there for a year....since then we had emails back and forth....his email address is from UK....and I kinda trust him....

last week...MR. online#2 texted me asking me if I'm interested in anything sexual....OMG....what the heck? what that has come from? I'm telling him I don't want to have a coffee even with you, no relationshiip, you are asking me for sex....go get a professional....well...I didn't say that....I didn't reply him back....he texted me again for being sorry.....and I said...."well...sorry, I'm not interested in any types of relationship with you....good luck".....then he appologized and ended it nicely!!!!
last Saturday....I'm getting a photo email from him on my cellphone....this is the MR. online#2....and it's his naked picture....him and his private part......OMG.....now I'm thinking....this guy is a true mess....true crazy....and I'm so afraid of him.....

I texted him today saying "this is so offensive...stop sending me these disturbing pics and texts...and have some dignity for yourself"......he texted me back...."Shut the **** off *****"......I texted him "you are crazy" and I called my cell company to block him.....

I'm just wondering how that can happen.....go out with a guy just one date....couple of hours....no touching, no kissing...no nothing...and then because I didnt go out with him for the second time, he's getting crazy and sending me his naked pic and then he calls me names.....what that comes from?

It looks like he's very active online....I tried to find away to report him....but thank god the free dating site didn't have any way to block him or report him....very nice....now I'm thinking the online dating is just for crazy guys....and I'm so concern about my safety....
I think every single woman out there must be very careful to do online dating....don't ever give up your phone number....

well....the MR. online#1 has emailed me several times and told me he will come back here for a weekend end of september, but it's been 6 days that I haven't heard from him......I went online to hide my profile I saw him being active within an hour....and of course, his location has been changed to the UK location.....I thought great....and good to know....

Is there anybody out there for me really? do I stay alone for rest of my life? I'm so afraid now

I would not try this online dating anymore....it looks completely scary and unsafe....

thanks for reading my story
-M