Sep 21, 2010 at 01:09 AM
mary alice, experiencing the suicide of a loved one takes time. there are many questions we have that we have that will go unanswered. using a T to get through the grief process would/can help.
not to sound heartless but if we choose "every year will be ruined now", quoting you. but it doesn't mean we have to choose that mindset. there are ways to be able to process your loss so you can get on with the rest of your life.
i hope you can find that road...i did..and it doesn't take away from my missing my loved one. it just makes me able to cope and move on.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
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