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Old Sep 21, 2010, 03:22 AM
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
my individual feedback felt patronizing.....

This feedback helps me feel as though this T (not my T) is positioning himself as higher and mightier than me...and it's rubbing me the wrong way.
MUE, do you see many issues through out the day as people being either above or below you or others? Didn't you post once that your mother made you feel this way with your brother? If this is true maybe you are doing this in group and this is what others are reacting to?

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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions View Post
Before the woman piped up, I got very little feedback from the group about what I was sharing. There was no depth to their responses...or there was just silence....it was so, unfulfilling.
So she was giving feedback you just didn't like what she said.

MUE, I think that you will learn a lot of things about yourself through this and don't you think that leaving this unresolved this week has added to your stress? I do hope that you go tonight and try to resolve this for yourself.
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