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Old Sep 21, 2010, 03:43 AM
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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge View Post
I guess I am wishing T wasn't so far away, kicking myself for being so clueless and dependent (and ungrateful and twisted. My my, aren't we Miss Cognitive Distortion this week).
Yeah, how dare you be these things! You have been through whatever you have been through and you should have turned out perfect anyway! The rest of us can only develop in a healthy way by having been raised in a healthy environment, but you, no you are different and you should not have taken anything unhealthy out of your unhealthy environment.

(I do hope you get that I am being sarcastic here)
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