inky, i imagine that whatever it is you want answers one, some of us will probably have some experience of it. However, you need to feel safe about what you post and it seems to me that you want to be careful. Careful is good, is sort of says you are looking after you and the sensitive/vulnerable feelings you have around this thing that is bothering you.

So, maybe when you are ready you can say. But only when it feels right for you.

All the gilrls