ooh {{{{{{{{{{Trinity~!}}}}}}}}}} yes, coping skills,, high priority! Self Soothing,,, must get that one,,,, we will spend all the time we have being here for you, while you get thru this!! one thing i did was learn to be my own mother, then i did what a good mother would do,,, i fed me, clothed me, hugged me,,, took me swimming, and all those things,,, Mother can be re-created ~!! Well Done,, on all your hard work, i know it took great Courage and Determination~!!!!! Gus