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These are all valid and thoughtful replies. I don't want to pursue anything more with him while he's still in his current relationship -- I won't play a part in someone else's infidelity, nor do I want to be strung along, so I'm just living as usual, waiting to see what may or may not happen
I have considered the "house on fire" scenario and I worry that it may go the same way this time. So in the event that something should come of this, attention will be paid to, "is this moving a little too fast for a positive outcome?" and my foot will be on the brake should it need to be pushed.
Rhiannon, yes: There was a lot more at play than immaturity, I agree, but then I also think that immaturity was a major contributor towards the pain we caused each other...*sigh*...it's all so confusion, at the same time as it's clear as glass.
So, we'll see; we haven't spoken in several days, I asked for distance until he has a better idea of what he wants -- I don't want any communications between us playing a part in his decision, the idea is out there, there's no need to "make a case for Me" any further, he either wants to make the change and then pursue something with me or he doesn't, I can't make that decision for him.
I don't deny that I have hope, though -- just trying to stay busy and not let it consume me. Thanks for weighing in, guys, I appreciate it!
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