Yes, I do like talking about things other people avoid. I have questions. I was'nt purposely being obscure, I just thought if anyone else had had this experience they would recognize what I was talking about. As I said, I expected negative responses. This does'nt have anything to do with agreement or disagreement. I don't know where you get that. I was simply asking if others had had the same experience. That's yes or no...you can't agree or disagree with someones experience. If you did, it would be written as " you are lying". I did not expect to be questioned about my validity, but hey, everyone has their opinion. It's difficult to think of every possible angle someone could interpret a word or a sentence or paragraph. there are endless possibilities. I still personally think my first post was clear enough for anyone who had experienced it.