(((((((PT)))))) I'm really sorry you're going through so much stress

I don't know any of the history with your hub so I'm not sure what is up with that, but mixed messages like that from a spouse are enough to drive anyone to the brink of despair. Let alone if you're already dealing with other stuff. I'm really sorry this is happening.
I hope the appointment tomorrow helps and I'm keeping everything crossed for you that things get resolved and that you feel better.