I've noticed that some people feel pretty timid when they first come to PC. I understand that. I didn't leave the Internet Traveler's Lounge for ages..I was afraid of everyone.

I'd like to throw something out. The more a poster reveals what they are seeking and why they are here will enable the "oldies" to offer support and understanding. I'm not advocating talking about things that you can't talk about. I'm talking about your DX, your feelings and your needs. It really helps other posters to have some sort of big picture, so that our responses are appropriate.

Coming to PC and not telling anyone what your DX is and not telling why you're here makes for some really awkward moments. I usually hold back when I feel like I don't understand exactly what the other person needs. And in the same vein of thought, disrupting a thread to offer advice when a poster didn't ask for it also causes awkward moments. I'd think that if I started a thread and was in deep pain and another poster came in and busted the thread, it would make me feel pretty bad. Giving "unasked for" advice can run people off. And I don't want to see anyone leave because another poster has abused their thread.

xoxoxo pat