I don't think that was is Rhian... He came to pick me up and I was all dressed up (even make up!! so not me LOL) ready to go but he told me that I really looked shattered and that he didn't want me to have to "put on the new people smiling face"...

I seriously think he hasn't had "great sex" - well not what I think of as great sex anyway and that perhaps his ex leaving him for a woman put a bit of a dent in his ego... Plus lower sex drive than me... Seemed that when I hit 30 a button was pushed that makes me 'randy' all of the time