I lost my baby girl in 98..people say I should get over it an move on..my own husband told me just days after that I should move on ..what?...how can I?....they dont know what its like...they didn't lose a child or they were not the ones who carried that child inside them....a part of me died that day...I dont want to forget and move on..I loved her even thou I had not met her yet but she was a part of me and I her..we were connected and that connection got severed and she was gone..I feel her near me always and a day does not go by that I am not thinking of her...I blame myself for what happened...I have talked and talked about it with T's and it does not get no better....I feel so much anger,,hate,,sadness,,loneliness,,and yet peace at times knowing that she is with my grandfather and he will look after her..does anyone get over what has happened to a loved one?..or a friend?..why do people tell you to get over it?...