You never really get over something like that you learn to live with it and sometimes it still comes back to you like it was when it happened. I lost a granddaughter in Jan of this year she was born dead ( the hospitals fault) She would have been my 3rd grand child and only grand daughter. Her mother says she is ok most time but then it hits her what she has lost but she says everything is for a reason even when we don't know what that reason is. She says at least she got to see her. Enjoy the ones you have living and each time the one that passed on comes to mind remember that you at least had some time with them.