So far, so good. I think he's really listening when I talk about gettings the meds balanced, etc, and how the depression isn't his fault, but he wasn't helping it any. Honestly, I think he was in denial because he was afraid I would be like one of my sisters who is BP I and doesn't do anything to help herself except self-medicating to a dangerous degree. Anyway, no rambling...the sun is out so I think I need to go sit in it for a while. Thanks, everyone for your support!!!!