Thunder,

It seems they have you bluffed. Did they say they would get a judge to ratify it? Because that means going to court first before they can dispense his medications; before that they are merely witholding them placing his health and mental wellbeing at risk.

Having his dose time changed even by an hour or two on that particular medication can have him swinging off the lightshade at 10pm when he should have been in bed and asleep at 8pm.

If you change his schools please remember that they will send his file over to the new school so the issues will follow you. Make sure if you change that you tell the new principal that there are privacy issues and that things are no longer private. If I were you I would want to see what is in his files. If they refuse, under the freedom of information act you are entitled to know what is in there. If there is anything they consider "sealed" and refuse to give it to you, you could then get a public solicitor and deal with it that way.

It's great that some want to help, but there is a difference between helping and being autocratically controlling you and absuing your 1st amendment and constitutional rights by blocking your access to redress these issues with complaints to the correct governmental authorities.

Wishing you luck dear thunder