{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{WW}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I know the feeling, Hun.

Just a question... How well do you know YOU? How do you define yourself? Do these definitions really portray the core you, or who you think you "should" be?

It's a ***** when your kids are trying to find themselves, establishing their own character and personality and Mom isn't too sure of what role she plays. Unfortunately, most of us mothers of teens haven't really had the time to figure out who we REALLY are. Stop now and then and ask yourself the question "WHO am I here?"

I may be wrong, but it seems your kids have got a piece of you each and they're all playing tug of war with you! OUCH!