Thank you Jewels
I think if I had children, and any adult, teacher or whoever compared one to another, I would soon make them wish they hadn't. I hope though that there are fewer teachers like that these days.
I guess now that I am an adult, I have taken over where my parents left off, as far as the comparrison thing goes (I compare myself to others all the time I mean). They don't seem to do that any more, and hopefully I will stop doing it one day also.