dear Lotus,,, i just lost my job for going head to toe with a boss more devious than i,,, so don't go there~! it's surprising sometimes what silence can do,,, if you don't speak up, they may all become curious, or think you are being respectful,,, you can't control them, so focus on changing anger to amazement, or something like that, you don't need a therapist to do that,, and if you want to talk to someone, there are plenty of us here in the evenings,, who understand anger and frustrations,,, hope you get it together and KEEP the JOB~! Gus