hi...

i spent some time with one of my partner's male alters the other night, and we had a great discussion. i always love talking to him.

it's interesting, because we were wondering if his presence during a lot of the peak puberty years might have affected the hormones in my partner's body. it must be so interesting for many people to share a body... i personally can't understand that, but i feel privileged to hear about other people's experiences. especially my partner's.

my partner is female, but she has a very significant lady beard. she has recently let it grow, and just be what it is (though that's not easy in this world). it certainly takes some people by surprise. it's quite noticeable. i'm sure there are many reasons why that may exist, but it's certainly something that's interesting to think about. it's not that common exactly.

i wonder too, if having male alters affects the female body in different ways. i wonder if other people/communities may have unique characteristics because of their multi-gendered self.

i think it's ok for everyone to be just the way they are... but i certainly know that my partner has had some interesting challenges as a complicated multi-gendered self.

i hope this is an ok topic to talk about. i dont know if other people have challenges as a multi-gendered self... but i really respect communities that can live together in a body.

thank you for letting me share my thoughts.

take care.