Ever since I was a kid, I was always the follower. I got involved with activities so that I would "belong". Now in my adult life I find that I really don't know what I really like. I feel lost.

To give an example: About 3 years ago I decided I wanted to ride motorcycles (because all my friends rode). I spent the money to take a riding class and went out and bought a brand new bike. I rode it once. It now sits in the back yard collecting cobwebs.

I also find that the people that I considered "friends" are not my cup of tea. So over the past 2 years I have pulled myself out of society and spend my time alone at home.

Anyone else have this problem?