dear wannabe,, first you might stop asking other people "if they feel this way". You are feeling how you are feeling. How will you find out who you are until you start spending time taking yourself seriously ? i would love to tell you to try,,,, (blah blah blah) , but you might~~! so,,, look to yourself, made a real yourself decision, and find out if you have any judgement at all~! if not, make another decision~~! this is called Learning to Be ME. I wish you every success.. Gus