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Old Sep 24, 2010, 09:06 PM
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So I was perusing the Men-Focused Support section and I was greatly enjoying all of the topics that are here and that they are unique and can't be found anywhere else on the site. The idea and feeling of "Guy Time" right here on the forum. I appreciate its usefulness and the fun that can be had...

Then I ran into a problem... I read the thread "Who Are You Favorite MILFS" and was a little disturbed, kind of upset, and felt a little bit like it was some sexism.... The thread has been closed last post being November of last year.

Am I the only one who feels it was wrong for women to intrude upon and post on the thread? I understand that curiosity may kill the cat and men or women might read through the others sections, but to actually post in it, which ultimately caused the thread to be closed.

Some comments included intentionally set up just to provoke? No I think it was all in good fun of what is a now socially accepted term, not meant to demean or objectify anyone...

Also the comment was made that women can post in the Men's Section if invited... Why yes I see where this can be of value, but shouldn't the invitation of a female perspective be done or at least approved by the thread creator? And were the female/s that did post in fact previously invited?

Alas, that thread is not the subject, but the real subject is how can I feel comfortable posting something that is intended for a male audience, with male points of view, if women are allowed to metaphorically "Waltz in the door and trash the place"? I feel as if I can't really let any true thoughts, ideas or problems out that this section would be used for now that I have seen this happen in the past....?
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