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Default Sep 24, 2010 at 09:15 PM
 
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((((((geez))))))

He needs to stop stepping on you. You are showing courage and expressing your needs and desires to him and he is discounting you - that's not good. Do you think he'd be willing to join you with your T and talk about it? Maybe have a mediator of sorts?
Thank you for the hugs invisible. As for him going to see any T? DON'T GET ME STARTED!!! - My T agreed to meet with me and my husband once a long time ago and she set him strait about something

She did say that she won't do couples therapy and her meeting with us together was a one time thing

I've been BEGGING my husband to go to therapy for over two years now and wont go. He's a 'do it yourself' as my T says. I've just been trying to work on my part of things as best I can. Sigh.

I suppose things could always be worst.

Thank you

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