I hear ya!! Sorry things are so difficult. It sucks that you are physically ill with a cold right now on top of everything else. It's no wonder you don't feel like tackling the dishes and the laundry! If you're sick it seems like your husband and son could help with household chores? (well, even if you weren't sick they could help too!!)

Well done for getting up and getting dressed. But go easy on yourself if you still have a cold and issues with your shoulder. I hope you're able to get some rest. I realize the depression is a big issue regardless of any physical stuff going on, but at least if you can rest up and get over the cold, that would help. I really hope you feel better soon