Cat, you sure have a lot on your plate! I'm so sorry.

Yes, I've heard of "the system" taking advantage of those THEY deem "less than." It's so enraging and frustrating!

Perhaps you could do some thinking and tell us what of all that you listed you feel takes top priority and we can start whittling down your list.

We're here for you and will support you in any way we can.

Take care.