I just read your post and found it ingrossing. It seems as though you are caught in a "government system" where human beings often get "warehoused" and don't have a way out.

Have you contacted Jewish Family Service in your area? When I contacted mine, they were able to help me out financially as well as helping me find the resources I needed for improving my life.

You might want to contact your local Jewish Family Service to see what they have to offer you... I'm sure it would be better than the "help" you seem to be getting.

Shalom...
Ladywolf