Hello again,

after my last message, I came across the messages you left for other people's questions, which shed some more light about your own beliefs about sex (e.g. about sex being meant to be special but also important aspect of an initimate relationship), emotions such as guilt for sex that does not involve your girlfriend, as well as optimism regarding the long term when someone is prepared to invest the energy and potential benefits of professionals when things are too complicated. You also seem to value the benefit of talking openly with one's parter, although we all might understand that at this seems very tricky area (not wanting to distress the other person and unbalance the relationship).

Best wishes