greenleaves,

I hope you dont feel dejected by all this? It reads a bit like you do and that worries me. I dont want to think I have been part of something that has made you think about holding onto your replies until you have thought about them. In the end you should do what you feel is right.

But in the mean time, if you have somethng to say then you go right ahead and say it, as and when you feel it. Its your right.

ATG