My daughter is having financial problems and I am doing NOTHING to help. Well, I shouldn't say nothing, I helped get her kids back to school clothes...not a big deal.

She moved in with a friend and gave up her job because she thought she had a new/better job. That fell through. Now she has no $$, no job, and her "friends" that she is always helping don't seem to be able to return the favor. She is about to loose her car...which will make it difficult to find another job.

The situation is complicated. She's upset with me because I dislike these people (ex not so ex-boyfriend that was abusive) but her choices are poor. I know they are her choices to make but I can't keep picking up the pieces. She is an adult now and I spent many years running to the rescue....and it ends up back to this point eventually every time.

I know there comes a time when you have to allow your children to fail...but it's hard, especially with little ones involved.

Feeling very sad....