It sounds like a bit of a sticky wicket at the present time. I send you hugs!

If you don't panic, I believe that you can accomplish everything that is on your plate.
Fighting off the urge to become resentful and bitter toward your family will make this journey much easier - you can still choose to be angry after you get settled.

One thing that always helps me in a crisis where action on my part is necessary, is to create a list of things that need to be done. If I don't make a list, everything feels so unmanagable and then I end up not being able to take care of myself.

Enlist your friends, your support group in helping you make decisions. Two heads are frequently better than one.

When one door closes - another soon opens. Be open to thinking about different options and possible new opportunities.

Although you may think this situation is too much for you to possibly handle, you can and will with the help of friends and your support group. We are here for you.
Laurie