Hmmm. My first thought is "What's wrong with being a 'something else'"? But that might just be me....Ha!

I'm read that plenty of men who certainly consider themselves "hetero" really like oral sex better than the usual definition of sex between a male and a female, if you know what I mean....

I know one man who is happily married, but gets a great deal of pleasure from oral sex from his wife, plus he even likes to suck on her anatomically-correct vibrator! His therapist has said that he did have bad relationships with his mom and dad. I think he is questioning a bit (and HE is in his fifties). Frankly, I think sex ultimately comes down to who we are the most comfortable with. For women it tends to be more of an emotional thing. It might be for you, too, as time goes on. In long-term relationships, friendship tends to override sex as the factor that holds it together.

As other people have said, you are still young--I'm not sure you really need to worry about labeling yourself as yet. I do think it's "easier" to be hetero, even still with all the bias. I would certainly encourage you to give females your best shot. (Ha! I WILL not suggest that I am trying to make a pun!)

Slinking away.....