My daughter is almost 13 and she has Facebook. She along with another girl have been having problems with a girl at school - the other girl(daughters friend) has had problems for years with this girl. Last night my daughter was trying to discuss this with the girl. I usually prefer her not to have negative discussions on Facebook.

It wasn't getting solved, then her mother got on and started threatening to get me involved and insulted my daughter by telling her she's illiterate. My daughter gets A's in school and even won speech competitions. Maybe there was the occasional typo but I think many people do this, when they talk casually on Facebook. To make matters worse this girl went and asked my daughters best friend if I'm a B---h. I've never met the girl or her mother.

I'm extremely irritated that a parent would barge in and talk with my daughter. I would never think of talking to a minor without the parents permission. My daughter likes Facebook but I think it causes problems sometimes with bullying. What makes it more difficult is this girl's is in my daughters class. I feel very upset that parent would go ahead and insult my daughter like this.

To make matters worse there's a boy in her class that likes my daughter but the only way he shows it....is by commenting on her body. He also brags about when he visits his dad, he watches porn and talks about it in class. At the moment I feel completely disappointed and mad.