Hi (((((((Mary Alice))))))): Does your T work with you on formulating strategies to help you set limits with your Manager, etc.? Is he helping you come up with strategies to break this pattern of overworking that you experience?

It's so hard to see you struggle with the same issues, and it must be horrible times 10 for you to have to endure.

It seems like a proactive plan, (other than suicide), is needed..., but at a point you had mentioned that your goal is not so much recovery as shoring up the status quo = has that changed?

How can we help? I know so many people care about you very much here, (including me), but are lost as to how we can be a constructive support to you.

I know of a website where people with bpd are supported but also 'challenged' on their 'stuff' by other people who are living with bpd also. I've been checking it out myself, (though I don't post), because people with neurotic tendencies, (that would be me , share some common traits with those struggling with bpd, so I've found a lot of info. on challenging black and white thinking, perfectionism, etc.

Just some thoughs. As always, sending big hugs your way! XOXO, Peanut

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