Wow, I see what you are up against ((((((((Wantabenormal))))))))))) That sounds really tough. I understand that there are people who don't have strong emotions and for whom life is very "cut and dried" and for whom there's a solution to everything, etc etc. BUT, your husband needs to understand that not everyone is like him!!!! And that there are other ways of seeing the world, and other ways of being in the world. And that he is married to someone who does not have the same emotional make-up he does.

I don't know what the answer is, but it would seem that there needs to be more compromise from him and more willingness to try and understand what you are going through. Thinking of you and sending hugs!!