Thanks for the advice... i tend to agree that if i say anything its just going to give her something to make communication all the more restricted with my son. Only thing that upset me is she was trying to make me believe a 4month ultrasound picture was that of one being 6wks fetus.... thats when i started to wonder why should be lying about it all... cause obviously she was alot further along than 6wks and our son wasnt around her at that time.... you just cant see nose and hands and fingers and everything in a 6week old ultra sound.
I guess to some extent it is our sons problem but honestly at this point he dont expect that shes lying about the baby being his.