Leora....if you ever find yourself in that situation again...just post on the board what your needs are..and most of the time there will b someone just waiting to talk and try to help someone out of a jam. If the conversation veers over to their needs. Be specific. It's alright..be honest. If they r not interested then wait for someone else to come along. Maybe one of the mods here can be a little more concise with helping you!

TGC