Sorry your going through the same thing. My wife is the same way however she puts on an act when I go to thr Doc or when Family is around. Other then that I don't get the time of day. In fact she even signed up to work late once a week every week leaving me alone for well almost two days really it's hard. I'm Biploar1 Schizo Effective Dissorder with Parinoia, OCD. and other health issues I asked her not to but well..what can I do now my Depression is so low my Parinoia is way high. I sure know where your coming from. So if you ever need anyone to talk to. Some people just think of themselves I guess. Good Luck. Jabberjaws