WW,
I'm so sorry you are having a rough time and that you are ill. Rough times are bad enough without being sick, but when one is sick it seems to make it all the worse.

I know you didn't want to hear lectures about you-- </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
carrying the whole load.

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but how can someone that cares not say something?

I care and it hurts to hear that you are so taken advantage of. You are teaching the people around you that it is OK to treat you as such. (that is also said for me to hear too!!) I'm sorry you are angry and tired.
What if you didn't do their laundry-- just yours? What would happen if you let the dishes pile up and had a few paper ones in your room for you to use?

Regardless of the relationship-- these people are adults and should act as adults. You are worth so much-- please be kind to yourself-- I hope you feel better and also that I haven't offended you.

Thinking of you

mandy