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Old Sep 30, 2010, 02:23 PM
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Hey, I think it's what PurpleFins has for a tag line

If you keep on doing what you've done- you'll keep on getting what you've got.

If you open up and trust and let the little one out, you have a chance for something different. Yes, there is risk. If you trust this T more than anyone else, then you've probably found the safest person you will find.

My 100% safe person is my husband. He still can "hurt" me, on purpose or by accident, but we can talk about it safely. My vulnerable self was visible to my originalT. He left for a new job some weeks later - but he did welcome her presence and make her feel safe for a short time.