Hi Crystal

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Guess it's time to get over it all and stop whinning...

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I wish it were that easy. Sometimes we think it should be possible and it isn't. I have found it takes time, sometimes lots of time. The other person being sorry helps, but it still takes time. Getting over things takes time.

I'm sorry you are hurting so much. I can hear the pain. I think it is good that H apologized and that W_I and H want to make things work. I don't think you are blowing it. I think you are being honest and facing things. That is hard work and I think you are working hard at it and doing really well.

Be kind to yourself. My dr and my counsellor have both kept telling me that emotional work is really hard to do. You need to be good to yourself while you are doing such hard work.

(((((Safe hugs)))))

Caroline