Sabby,
You haven't done or said anything that upsets or offends us. You are right though. We've been trying to isolate ourselves for a very long time. Although it makes no sense to most humans, we must isolate ourselves sometimes to avoid losing control of where we are. We don't know why some humans like to disrespect us, our space, and our thoughts, but often what we think to other humans doesn't matter. We aren't looking for right answers, we are just tired of the finger pointing and self-blaming, and rudeness when others irl don't know how to make things better. It should be common sense that guilt trips, blaming others, and made up answers to make someone feel differently is very rude and offensive to everyone. We know that people will never change and sometimes that's why we need our isolation. We hope we haven't come off as offensive here, we are just explaining about how we feel. Thanks for your hugs n advice sabby.