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Old Oct 01, 2010, 09:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Shark View Post
Speaking as someone who has been there and back, the most important thing for me was to realize what I actually valued. In situations like this, you aren't cold/cruel because you hate people. Quite the opposite - you are cold/cruel because you really like people but don't have that desire fulfilled! Realize that while in your mind you may be "justified" in your response, it won't get you to where you want to go.
THAT IS SUCH BS! I'm very bitter b/c I DO hate people. I've been friendly and all they do is either give me dirty looks or ridicule me.. People treat me like crap, now I'm going to treat them like one. I've gotten no where anyway..