wisewoman, there should be a place for mums to go. They should be able to go there shut the door and scream. They should get looked after and pampered and only allowed to leave when they feel rested. Thats what I think, mums like you are great and you dererve the rest.

Only you know what will work in your household. But what about picking one little thing that will really get those children where it hurts. I dont know what that one thing is, but if you could find the one little thing they really like and stop doing it until they help you maybe they would get the message?

Life is hard and mums need all the help they can get.

Im sending you an extra pair of hands and some warm cuddles, just for you

atg

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