Last week I posted that my daughter had begun to hurt herself (scratching at this point, not cutting). Thank you for all your replies. She did it in front of us--not trying to hide it. We've gotten her to her psychiatrist who changed her medications (to treat bipolar rather than depression) and next week start week-long out-patient treatment. I've stayed with her most days this week. But I have not figured out what else I can do and how to handle the stress as a father.