Some of these people have very little understanding of what it means to talk about reproductive rights. Just the right of a woman to say, "not tonight, dear," is a reproductive right, as is the right to do a self exam. Handing them some brochures might be a good idea, if any of them might read them. I am famirl conservative myself, but thes guys sound like the second star-to-the-right-and-straight-on-till morning-type. There's no telling what they will see as encouragement to stay. Head up, Saluki. Try not to let them make you too much like themselves, OK? HUGGGSSSS