really not appreciating that last reply. we feel judged and as if we shouldnt be allowed to feel like we do and we dont like that had enough of that already if thats how you choose to approach things that fine but please dont push it on us,thanks. if and when we choose to forgive is up to us and expecting someone to keep a promise they made to us isnt expecting perfection its courtesy! if you cant do it then dont say you will simple as that