Wise, I sent an email to my son last night (through his mother's account, since she won't let me have his) and she wrote back today and told me to leave him alone unless he writes me first, because he doesn't need to be thinking about anything but getting ready for college and having fun and he shouldn't have to be worrying about me (he has no reason to worry about me). She kept saying, "I know this sounds mean," and I wanted to write her back and say, "F'IN A, ******!" She wouldn't have him if it weren't for me.

Anyway, it sounds like I"ll never have to be in your shoes -- he'll be 40 and still living at home under mama's thumb!

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH, I am STEAMIN'.

I hope things are better for you.

Candy