Dexter and sleeps, I guess it's all agreed, I have to grow a pair and stand up. I agree with you Dex. My son is applying to several schools for transfer. He was at an expensive prestigious school for two years on Dean's list until I couldn't afford it anymore. He lived in apartments with other people and it was hard for him. As for the girl, she needs a pdoc immediately. She did lose her job. Of course son says it's through no fault of her own. Panic attacks had a lot to do with it.

They will probably move on to the next school he goes to. He is taking classes at a local state U so he can keep health insurance.

I guess one of the things that is eating at me is this. My adopted daughter wants nothing at all to do with us. She has been ours for almost 15 years. Last spring when things started to errupt I saw a letter she had written laying in the kitchen. In the letter she said that since Dad had major surgery to remove a tumor from his spinal cord that I was making her do all of the work in the house. I don't feel like it was true but it was her perception and it hurt.

At the time I was hiring sitters for my spouse so I could work.

It hurts to have her treat me like an enemy and that she is changing her name.

This son is mature enough to handle the truth of me telling him the way it is.