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What is the term when you switch but are prest to have a common memory? This is when we feel safe and know that we are near someone that will keep us safe if we do switch or in a public place so that we can leave if we do not feel safe.
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The second term we are looking for is when we sitch in fear and have a black out due to fear and have no memoir of what has happened but can tell that time has passed. Wht do you call this and how do find safety when the ones that cause it are suppose to be the specialtice that are to help you? WE feel alright when we have some one with us but it has gotten to the point that because those T that hurt us in the past we do not feel safe with the T we Have now. Dou to the issues around this it really will change even if we got another T so we are trying to work this fear out with the one we have but do not have the words that will help us get this person to understand it.
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CAn you help us find the words? This is the point of debate that is keeping us from getting a SErvice dog up to this point. She says that she can get us permission for a dog that can stay home but we need something that will allow us to spend more time out of the apartment and allow us to feel surcure enough to be around people and make friends. We can not do that if we are homebound and not able to relaxe around people.
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Thank you all for your help.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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