ohhhh so very sorry your daughter in law upset you. like blueoct. said, you can go ahead and be admitted now if you feel like it would help. i know i've experinced something very similar and it does hurt-BAD. so glad your hubby loves you so. yes, try to take a walk after the race. it won't change what happened but the walk will be good for you. i don't understand young people sometimes especially. i try not to be over sensitive but there are times i've felt so blue cause of circumstances like this. i know it would take some mental adjusting but you can celebrate today the love your hubby feels for you. you are of value and worth. no matter how much you feel slighted. that's on her, imho. i hope she has a wake up and apologizes to you. you did such a lovely thing by making that keepsake for your grandbaby. how very thoughtful of you all. i do hope you can find some peace and comfort to know we care about you. sending warm thoughts your way ...midnight